Do Good Fences Make Good Neighbors?
The old saying, "Good fences make good neighbors," holds more truth than meets the eye. A fence is more than just a wooden, metal, or vinyl barrier; it can also enhance one’s outdoor living space, boost a home's curb appeal, and even improve relationships with neighbors.
The Paradox
At its base, the fence can be seen as a paradox, a keeper and a liberator. It confines and yet defines, a boundary that paradoxically divides, acts as a connector, and foster community. To some, it is a fortress, a shield against the world’s encroachments. A sanctuary’s perimeter, a place where the self can retreat and recover. Yet, to others, it is a mere whisper, a subtle suggestion of where one domain ends and another begins.
Function and Form
In its function, it is utilitarian, a marker of property, a guardian of domesticity. It protects property, defines space, and enhances outdoor living area. Whether the aim is privacy, security, or aesthetic appeal, a well-chosen fence can transform a yard marking where our individual worlds begin and end. Yet, just as a well-placed fence can enhance a property, so too can it enrich our relationships. It's a reminder of the importance of both personal space and communal harmony. Yet, to others, it is a mere whisper, a subtle suggestion of where one domain ends and another begins.
Fence Fails and Wins
Let’s be honest, not all fences are created equal. We have had to endure vines such as ivy, poison ivy and kudzu are allowed to grow up around your fence and invade other’s property. Weeds growing so tall that as they clamor for light over the height of the fence then blow their spawn into everyone’s yard. Some might say that the fence is a canvas for nature's artistry. Vines caress its frame, transforming it into a living tapestry. My hubby likes to state that tall fences make good neighbors.
Or perhaps it stands stark and alone, a minimalist sculpture against the sky. Or an enhancement to community spaces.
Fences can also play a role in fostering community. They can help to define property lines and create a sense of privacy, but they can also serve as a way to connect with neighbors. For example, a low fence can allow you to chat with your neighbors while still providing some separation. Back in the day, my dad also had a wrought iron fence separating the backyard from the alley beyond. I always thought it was interesting in that the fences to each side are really low allowing the neighbors to be neighborly yet keeping out those who just were passing through the alley. On the other hand, there are those who have transformed their fences into beautiful focal points. Ours is lined with hydrangeas and elephant ears on the outside. It breaks up the expanse of fence and the green looks fantastic against the black. I also like the white background too.
Beyond the Barrier
In essence, a fence can be seen as a poetic device, separating yet uniting, defining yet inviting, creating a balance between individuality and community. It is in this duality that the fence finds its poetic resonance. It is not merely wood or metal, but a reflection of human nature, a testament to our need for both separation and connection. So, the next time you look at your fence, consider its dual nature. It's not just a structure; it's a reflection of your property, your personality, and your place within your community.
What about you? What kind of fence do you have? Are you planning a fence project? Share your fence stories and tips in the comments below!
